
Worried About Getting Through The Holidays?
“What is your biggest fitness challenge during the holiday season?”
You shared ~ I Listened!
After browsing through more than 500 responses submitted for this survey question, I made a list of the most common challenges and created a list of 7 holiday survival tips to help busy moms successfully navigate this holiday season to stay on track with their body shaping and fitness goals.
1. Keep It In Perspective
This is #1 for it is most important.
Your expectations can make or break your ability to stay on track.
One of the most common fitness headlines Busy Moms see during the holidays centers around WEIGHT GAIN – stating that the average person gains 5 to 8 pounds between Thanksgiving and the New Year. While weight gain is a logical concern, the amount of weight gained would take a LOT of effort on your part to achieve.
Within 6 Weeks you would have to make an focused effort to overindulge on an almost daily basis and take part in little to no movement.
Possible? Absolutely.
Likely for those who are readers of this mommy fitness blog? Not a chance.
You see the time between New Years and Thanksgiving has a FAR greater impact on your results than the time between Thanksgiving and New Years.
Those who have made an effort to change for the better have already started the momentum to keep moving forward.
Those who are waiting until NOW – The Holiday Season- to suddenly make a change that causes a drastic drop in weight or expecting to see amazing definition to arms, legs and tummy are setting themselves up for disappointment. If an effort to make changes did not happen between New Years and Thanksgiving – why all of a sudden would they happen during the busiest season of the year?
Point is, to keep things in perspective and avoid falling into the victim mentality that you cannot escape weight gain.
You will be far more successful this holiday season by adjusting your goals.
My suggestion to you is to either CHOOSE to Continue to make progress on your body shaping goals or CHOOSE to simply Maintain the progress you have made up to this point. Those who survive the holidays make this choice. Those who do not end up set unrealistic expectations and fall into the downward spiral of negative self talk and low self esteem, thus feeling as if the answer lies in starting all over again in 2013.
2. Have a “BACK ON TRACK” Plan
The Fit Yummy Mummy’s who take on Transformation Challenges know this as setting “BOT’s”. This is what you will know to DO if and when a slip up occurs. Being prepared is half the battle.
What I want you to do is make a list of all the things you can do to immediately get Back On Track after a slip – the very next BEST Step. List out Action Steps that you can take ASAP rather than falling into the trap of – “Oh well, this day is ruined, I may as well start tomorrow” mindset.
BOT’s might include – going for a walk, drinking a big glass of water, chewing on some gum, do a 4 minute Tabata workout, writing about what just happened in a journal, etc. You will want this to be a list you write out and keep with you.
3. Holiday Workouts
Wow ~ the list of excuses for workouts was pretty long.
No Motivation
No Time
No Space
Too Busy
Unable to get to the gym
Not enough energy at the end of the day
Not enough time to get all the Cardio in
Makes me realize we need a quick pep talk about what an effective workout is all about.
Your workouts must focus on full body, strength training exercises.
This is NOT about doing more and more cardio thinking your are doing yourself right by burning off all those indulgences – this is not how fat loss works and your workouts should NOT be seen as Punishment. So if MOTIVATION is your excuses – time to stop putting all your efforts into cardio.
When you workout with intensity – your workout takes a mere 15-20 minutes.
NO More Time Excuses. NO More “I’m Too Busy” excuses. Its just 15-20 minutes, 3 days a week. Get your workout in 1st thing in the morning, you feel amazing, you feel proud of sticking to the commitment to get your workouts in, you feel motivated to KEEP doing what works.
The Fit Yummy Mummy workout protocol teaches moms how to workout AT HOME.
NO More “I can’t get to the gym” excuses.
Space is also not an issue – whether you are in a hotel or having to workout in a relatives guest bedroom, the FYM at home workout system allows you to successfully complete your workouts.

This is Dave The Band Man and I performing a Hotel Workout and as you can see – space was VERY limited – however he had me sweating and barely able to talk within 10 minutes.
Once again, strength training must take priority.
These types of workouts are quick, challenging and intense. They leave you feeling energized, happier and stronger. They are the PERFECT stress reliever.
**BONUS ~ Strength based workouts rev up your metabolism to help you burn more fat and calories 24-7!
4. Traveling
The biggest obstacle when traveling is being out of your normal routine. As mentioned above, when you have the right workouts plan, there is no excuse however, when traveling it is even more important to get it done first thing in the morning.
Call it your Morning Mover.
Make it FUN!
This will allow you to kick start your day, give you a burst of energy and help stave off the desire to overindulge, plus if you are on someone else’s schedule while traveling, you at least carve out this small fraction of your day for YOU. YOU deserve this.
5. Holiday Meals
This category had many different concerns. From staying committed to clean eating to knowing when to stop while enjoying a holiday feast. What and how you eat accounts for 75% + of your results. So when it comes to enjoying holiday meals you will be successful by Planning Ahead.
Use a calendar just as you would when mapping out your workouts. Star the days where you will be attending a holiday party, dinner or event that centers around feasting on a meal. Over a 6 week period determine the number you will attend. If this number exceeds 6 or more, then decide out of these meals which you will use as a “Cheat Day” and which you will practice moderation. If less than 6, then your goal is simply to stay on track practicing the 80-20 rule. Eating clean about 80% of the time while the other 20% gives you more flexibility. Yes different than the 90-10 rule, but this is the holiday season where you can allow more flexibility.
The second part of this is to simply be realistic.
Using words and phrases such as ~ “staying away from” “avoiding” “walking away from” “feeling deprived” “only having ONE cheat meal” “willpower to say NO”, etc.
This is just an All or Nothing approach that will get you into trouble. It’s the Holidays – you SHOULD allow yourself to enjoy your favorite once a year meals and sweets. You just canNOT do it Every Single Day…otherwise you will end up as part of the Stat shared above.
The key to holiday eats is to practice Awareness and Moderation.
6. Holiday Sweets
Giving in to the sweet tooth – unable to resist homemade baked holiday goodies…I am right there with you. BUT I plan on having my share of sweets WISELY.
Make each indulgence count by eating with intention. How much of it will satisfy a craving or holiday memory you have. How much do you really need? This is not the type of food that has fat burning qualities – remind yourself of the consequences and keep the indulgences in check.
7. Accountability
This is a Biggie.
If no one is looking, will you really stick to your plan? Will you be able to make a better choice? Will you get right back on track? This is why having a support system is essential, especially over the holidays when it can feel overwhelming and exhausting to stay on track when it seems temptation is all around you.
What’s good to know is how helpful staying connected online can be. From posting progress and choices made on sites such as Facebook, Twitter or InstaGram (follow me here –> HollyJoi).
As a Fit Yummy Mummy I hold transformation challenges that provide this and more. They are typically 10-12 weeks long – but over the holidays Busy Moms just need something simple and fun to keep them motivated and on track.
This is why I designed the 21 Day Holiday Hottie Challenge!
Not only will participants have access to 15 minute, fat burning workout videos at ClubFYM.com, they also receive daily coaching tips – in the forum of emails, calls and videos - that specifically address holiday obstacles and set Busy Moms up to be successful and actually ENJOY the holiday season.
This year I am adding a special twist by adding in an energizing Burpee Challenge.
Most exciting part – the Holiday Hottie members end up with a New Body in just 3 weeks, celebrating the Holidays looking and feeling their very best.
What have you got to lose ~ besides a few pounds and inches?

Brooke lost 4.5 lbs and 1.25 inches off her mommy belly

Renee lost 7 lbs and 4 inches off her mommy belly
Want to Join The Holiday Hottie Transformation Challenge?
Mark your calendar…
December 3rd
Focus on your Holiday Fitness goals with the FUN 21 Day Holiday Hottie Transformation Challenge.

Registration Opens: Thursday, November 29th.
Day One is Monday, December 3rd.
Challenge is hosted at ClubFYM.
Change your Body ~ Be a Holiday Hottie!


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Thanks Holly for this. GREAT to have these reminders at this time of year. It really highlights to me again that there is no magic in getting and keeping a great body – it’s just a matter of common sense, commitment and consistency. (So now we have the 3 M’s AND the 3 C’s)?!
Good set of reminders but I have to disagree with the statement “While weight gain is a logical concern, the amount of weight gained would take a LOT of effort on your part to achieve” – it’s really not that hard to gain 5 pounds!!
I have to be honest, I can’t pick my favorite tip. I think they are all great and helpful to keep things real. Thank you for your help.
Thanks for your reply Nicki – but if I may clarify. Those who are on a fitness minded path will have to WORK at making poor choices that LEAD to gaining 5 lbs in just 6 weeks. That’s 1 lbs a week. Many who are aware, SEE when a slip up happens and take ACTION to turn it around.
While those who choose NOT to take responsibility for their actions will very well gain more than 5 lbs over the next 6 weeks.
Question is…where are you on this?
My New Year’s Resolution is to be “photo shoot ready.” No time like the present to stay on track and kick start that dream! Holiday Hottie? Why, YES! Nothing tastes as good as fit feels!
Hi Holly, I always appreciate the tips you spread of fat loss, for me its so hard to even start because I am alone and no-one who motivates me, I need to loose some weight & I also know that if I am not starting immediately being fat is all that is going to be there for me.
Holly please guide me how & when to start, and also a healthy eating plan so that I can start on 03 Dec wit it.
Regards
Rika
Thanks for the tips Holly. I like the no-hype approach you have to enjoying your special treats during this time. It helps me to truly enjoy the treat that I’m having, without guilt, and then to stay on track, rather than feeling like I’ve failed and then continuing to act (eat) like a failure!
Great advice again!
My biggest obstacle is letting myself give excuses. I am going to do this holiday hottie challenge with my main goal; TAKE CARE OF MYSELF. I really don’t know how to put myself on my priority list. That is not what I want my kids to learn. They should be a priority and so should I. (kindof teary to type this out) Thanks Holly for the great tips.
Great reminders and tips Holly! I already gained 1 pound after Thanksgiving. I allowed myself to bake some favorites and then did not stop myself from overindulging. I’m making every effort to get BOT this week. I committed to myself to do what I know works – journal, eat P & P, exercise, STOP BAKING!! FYM rocks!!